What is a coping skill?
A coping skill is any strategy we use to help manage stress or emotions in the moment. Coping skills help us calm our bodies, think more clearly, and respond (rather than react).
Why are coping skills important to kids?
Children and teens often experience strong emotions but may not know how to express or manage them. Coping skills give them healthy tools to navigate frustration, anxiety, excitement, and everything in between. Learning these skills builds responsibility, confidence, and emotional independence.
How can we teach our children to cope?
There are plenty of different strategies we can use to teach children coping skills but the key is to be patient,to remember that every child is different so you may have to try different techniques until you determine what is best for you specific child, and to practice practice practice!
Here are 3 coping skills to survive and thrive during the holidays:
1) Breathe.
It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. Box breathing is a kid-friendly strategy that helps slow the body down and reset the nervous system. It uses 4 equal steps, just like the sides of a box:
- Inhale for 4 counts
- Hold for 4 counts
- Exhale for 4 counts
- Hold for 4 counts
Tip: Have kids trace a square with their finger while they breathe!
2) Move your body
Movement helps release energy and improve mood. Make it fun:
- Walks 🐾
- Basketball 🏀
- Dance party 💃🕺
- Silly exercise blasts 🤪
3) Practice gratitude.
Research suggests that people who practice gratitude tend to feel happier and more fulfilled. Gratitude boosts joy, resilience, and connection.Try a daily family ritual: each person names 3 things they’re grateful for, Big or small — it counts!